Comments on: Ban Single Moms From the U.S. Military http://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/ Fri, 10 Feb 2012 11:32:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: evenheadhttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-902540 evenhead Fri, 27 Jan 2012 14:57:18 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-902540 The blonde hair on ya ain't a lie is it. I know dozens of women in the military most are really smart (i'll admit a couple weren't that bright but i've worked with several dumb male military as well). Also even after pregnancy they continue to be productive. several of my colleagues have gotten pregnant then came back to work. They were given a month or 2 of maternity leave then came back to work. Personally I hope that this article is written just with the intention of inciting fury and gaining attention for your site and not your honest opinion because if it is then I'd have to say that you're one of those people that needs to be taken out of the gene pool. The blonde hair on ya ain’t a lie is it. I know dozens of women in the military most are really smart (i’ll admit a couple weren’t that bright but i’ve worked with several dumb male military as well). Also even after pregnancy they continue to be productive. several of my colleagues have gotten pregnant then came back to work. They were given a month or 2 of maternity leave then came back to work. Personally I hope that this article is written just with the intention of inciting fury and gaining attention for your site and not your honest opinion because if it is then I’d have to say that you’re one of those people that needs to be taken out of the gene pool.

]]> By: Brianhttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-902476 Brian Fri, 27 Jan 2012 10:25:35 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-902476 Bet she never would dare enlist. I see where she is going with this article, here is an objective view... What about single fathers or can you only look at it from a womans point of view? Im a single father on my third deployment. I make it work, I have family and friends that help but none the less dont write an article thinking that only women are single parents in the military. Do us all a favor and shut the hell up and stay out of something you yourself dont even comprehend. Bet she never would dare enlist. I see where she is going with this article, here is an objective view… What about single fathers or can you only look at it from a womans point of view? Im a single father on my third deployment. I make it work, I have family and friends that help but none the less dont write an article thinking that only women are single parents in the military. Do us all a favor and shut the hell up and stay out of something you yourself dont even comprehend.

]]> By: Kane Fordhttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-902445 Kane Ford Fri, 27 Jan 2012 08:05:41 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-902445 I have too many thoughts running through my head on how to reply to this article, so I will just say this: You, Miss Streudel, are a complete failure as a decent human being. Go crawl in a hole with your little neo-Nazi pals and stop being a nuisance to society. I have too many thoughts running through my head on how to reply to this article, so I will just say this: You, Miss Streudel, are a complete failure as a decent human being. Go crawl in a hole with your little neo-Nazi pals and stop being a nuisance to society.

]]> By: Proud Single Navy Momhttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-902310 Proud Single Navy Mom Thu, 26 Jan 2012 23:45:39 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-902310 If you have NEVER served in the US military then keep your mouth shut! I did not create my child alone and I did not choose to raise her alone! What about single fathers serving? Or the numerous men, married or single, who have children at each duty station or port visit they have been to. What HUMAN, and I use the term loosely, in their right mind could have the nerve to say some of the most ridiculous and out right disrespectful things that have been posted here is beyond me. So what she decided to stay behind and care for her child. Would you rather she put him in the system for your tax dollars to raise him? All military members, single parents or not, are the reason you all are allowed to post such ignorance freely! So if it bothers you so much then take her place and do her job! I'm sure you won't decide to because you enjoy your daily life of sitting behind a computer venting over something that you have NO CLUE about. Ignorance is speaking on a subject that you have no knowledge of and you Debbie are a prime example. God bless your soul because you will surely need it. If you have NEVER served in the US military then keep your mouth shut! I did not create my child alone and I did not choose to raise her alone! What about single fathers serving? Or the numerous men, married or single, who have children at each duty station or port visit they have been to. What HUMAN, and I use the term loosely, in their right mind could have the nerve to say some of the most ridiculous and out right disrespectful things that have been posted here is beyond me. So what she decided to stay behind and care for her child. Would you rather she put him in the system for your tax dollars to raise him? All military members, single parents or not, are the reason you all are allowed to post such ignorance freely! So if it bothers you so much then take her place and do her job! I’m sure you won’t decide to because you enjoy your daily life of sitting behind a computer venting over something that you have NO CLUE about. Ignorance is speaking on a subject that you have no knowledge of and you Debbie are a prime example. God bless your soul because you will surely need it.

]]> By: Laura Phttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-884174 Laura P Thu, 29 Dec 2011 20:26:26 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-884174 Wow. This article is disrespectful of all single parents on active duty (yes Debbie there are single fathers too). Is it just women in uniform that you hate or did it never occur to you that men are single parents too? Being a single parent on active duty is challenging and stressful but not impossible. I was a single mom for many years while being stationed on an aircraft carrier (U S Navy). My son is college educated, not a drug or alcohol user and not an axe murderer. Being raised by a single Navy mom wasn't always easy for him but we both knew we were in it together.Anybody in uniform will tell you that our livelihood can be challenging, whether you are married, single, parents, straight, gay (yes we allow gays to serve openly now. You must really be freaking out). But please, do not pretend to be an expert on something that you CLEARLY know nothing about. Wow. This article is disrespectful of all single parents on active duty (yes Debbie there are single fathers too). Is it just women in uniform that you hate or did it never occur to you that men are single parents too? Being a single parent on active duty is challenging and stressful but not impossible. I was a single mom for many years while being stationed on an aircraft carrier (U S Navy). My son is college educated, not a drug or alcohol user and not an axe murderer. Being raised by a single Navy mom wasn’t always easy for him but we both knew we were in it together.

Anybody in uniform will tell you that our livelihood can be challenging, whether you are married, single, parents, straight, gay (yes we allow gays to serve openly now. You must really be freaking out). But please, do not pretend to be an expert on something that you CLEARLY know nothing about.

]]> By: Michelle W.http://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-883147 Michelle W. Thu, 29 Dec 2011 01:51:41 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-883147 What a perfect example of ignorance at its best...you should be ashamed of yourself. What a perfect example of ignorance at its best…you should be ashamed of yourself.

]]> By: Marion Nelsonhttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-828109 Marion Nelson Mon, 14 Nov 2011 17:11:52 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-828109 YOU HAVE GOT TO BE JOKING!!!! Please tell me that this was a joke. I am a single parent not by choice but it doesn't affect my work ethics or job performance. My daughter is very well taken care of. For you to say that ALL single military mothers are not capable of doing their jobs just blows my minds. There are single military fathers with the same issues. I don't hear you speaking on that. You are a small minded individual that probably has no self worth. I sacrifice alot of time and energy making sure I provide a good life for my child and still being an active mother as well as being in college full time so don't speak on something based on a few statistics. You don't live the life we live or put up with crap we put up with. It offends me that you can be a woman and have no clue about what it takes to be a WORKING MOTHER. Lady get a life, better yet JOIN THE MILITARY since you know so much about it. YOU HAVE GOT TO BE JOKING!!!! Please tell me that this was a joke. I am a single parent not by choice but it doesn’t affect my work ethics or job performance. My daughter is very well taken care of. For you to say that ALL single military mothers are not capable of doing their jobs just blows my minds. There are single military fathers with the same issues. I don’t hear you speaking on that. You are a small minded individual that probably has no self worth. I sacrifice alot of time and energy making sure I provide a good life for my child and still being an active mother as well as being in college full time so don’t speak on something based on a few statistics. You don’t live the life we live or put up with crap we put up with. It offends me that you can be a woman and have no clue about what it takes to be a WORKING MOTHER. Lady get a life, better yet JOIN THE MILITARY since you know so much about it.

]]> By: ashley kayhttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-795872 ashley kay Tue, 11 Oct 2011 17:52:18 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-795872 Whoever wrote this article is straight up dumb. Get yourself and your women issues together. We are very talented beings. we can do everything we do in the military , carry a baby, birth a baby and get back to business... it takes alot of sacrifice as it does for a male as well, and you cant use certain ppl to judge all females who are single and in the army with kids .. whoever wrote this is so nieve and a lack of better words, stupid. i feel sorry for whoever wrote this. no life at all. Whoever wrote this article is straight up dumb. Get yourself and your women issues together. We are very talented beings. we can do everything we do in the military , carry a baby, birth a baby and get back to business… it takes alot of sacrifice as it does for a male as well, and you cant use certain ppl to judge all females who are single and in the army with kids .. whoever wrote this is so nieve and a lack of better words, stupid. i feel sorry for whoever wrote this. no life at all.

]]> By: Ashleighhttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-764302 Ashleigh Thu, 08 Sep 2011 20:06:59 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-764302 Things change, people grow apart, and I have only been on one deployment since my son was born, but let me tell you what. . . I did my job and made it home safe. You should focus on the people that mess it up for everyone else, and not make it a mass message about all females. I love my son, and I love my job. I would hat always oput my son before my job, but the Army gives you a chance to make sure you have a plan when you deploy. So, if you dont take that, then you just want to get out. If you dont fight to make sure everything is going to be ok, then you dont want to be in the military. They give you plenty of time to take care of it, and will NOT deploy you without that plan...So, don't talk about all single mothers just because there are a handful of them that are worthless. Things change, people grow apart, and I have only been on one deployment since my son was born, but let me tell you what. . . I did my job and made it home safe. You should focus on the people that mess it up for everyone else, and not make it a mass message about all females. I love my son, and I love my job. I would hat always oput my son before my job, but the Army gives you a chance to make sure you have a plan when you deploy. So, if you dont take that, then you just want to get out. If you dont fight to make sure everything is going to be ok, then you dont want to be in the military. They give you plenty of time to take care of it, and will NOT deploy you without that plan…So, don’t talk about all single mothers just because there are a handful of them that are worthless.

]]> By: Tabathahttp://www.debbieschlussel.com/12220/ban-single-moms-from-the-military/comment-page-2/#comment-721113 Tabatha Sat, 16 Jul 2011 22:29:48 +0000 http://www.debbieschlussel.com/?p=12220#comment-721113 WOW....I didn't know ppl was this STUPID! I'm a single soldier of three boys and I love them with all my heart:) I came back frm dwn range April 2010, my husband sent our kids to live with my sister and walked out on his fam.... some single soldier aren't single by choice! Life happens and for the retards on here with the foolish comments are just PATHETIC! Does that mean I should have been put out. I am a single soldier and mother who perform my duties as a mother and soldier proficiently, so think before you speak bcuz you sound dumb as hell. WOW….I didn’t know ppl was this STUPID! I’m a single soldier of three boys and I love them with all my heart:) I came back frm dwn range April 2010, my husband sent our kids to live with my sister and walked out on his fam…. some single soldier aren’t single by choice! Life happens and for the retards on here with the foolish comments are just PATHETIC! Does that mean I should have been put out. I am a single soldier and mother who perform my duties as a mother and soldier proficiently, so think before you speak bcuz you sound dumb as hell.

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