Comments on: Eeuuww!: Mo’Nique Hosts Fat Chick “Beauty” Pageant

By: Princess

Princess — Sat, 01 May 2010 18:08:22 +0000

Aparently, the author of the original post (“Debbie,” is it?)is clearly uneducated regarding physical beauty in the real world today. If you look at paintings and artwork in history, one can see that larger women have always been the ideal image of beauty, and very attractive to men. Once the Flapper Era of the 1920′s and 1930′s portrayed a “stick-skinny” figure to sell their fashions, society sadly fell for this unhealthy propoganda. The begining of society’s mindset of thin being ideal is only due a budding fashion industry. These women lacked curves and true beauty and society fell into the mindset that looking like a 12 year old schoolboy was the ideal. Hardly. Since then the fashion industry has succeeded in brainwashing naive women into thinking skin & bones is attractive. This mindset has only been in existance within the last century, and Debbie, your naiveness has made you fall for this trick.

Regarding health issues and the larger woman: Thin people also get diabeties, cancer, high blood pressure, and all the other ailments that plus-sized women do. Do they not? I am a size 18 and just had complete bloodwork and a physical. I am COMPLETELY healthy, even at my age of 41. I power walk 3 miles every day, am happy, content and beautiful. (Men find me very attractive to the point where my husband gets jelous when I get hit-on by other men.) One should not assume someone is unhealthy or ugly just because the size on the clothing label is higher than the other person’s.

Suggestion to the author: Get your facts straight before making a declaration as the one you have above. You have truly shown your ignorance. Do you know what is really “gross” my dear? A stick-skinny woman (which looks more unhealthy than any full-figured woman) who looks like a pencil wrapped up in cloth when wearing clothes. Go eat something and look like a REAL woman. Then, when you can come back with a reality check, apologize to these lovely women, and be forgiven (because we are beautiful on the inside as well as on the outside).

By: facebookisha

facebookisha — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 04:54:54 +0000

you people are disgusting. big women can be beautiful too, and that is what this is trying to show. just because you may the time and money to workout every day or maybe you won the genetic lotto and were born thin…. many women struggle with their weight their whole lives, diet and exercise or not. you should be ashamed of yourselves for putting other people down when I’m sure you all have some sort of flaw.

By: dimetri

dimetri — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 13:25:56 +0000

i love you fat bitches every single one of you and if you need any thing just halla and ill come running to you love you momo and have a blessed day

By: healthnut

healthnut — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:49:41 +0000

Take 150 lbs. off of any “real woman” such as what they do on the show Biggest Loser and their self esteem will skyrocket as will their new found energy level. Obiesity is in no way a normal state. In all but a tiny percentage of the population it is not a genetic disorder. It is the result of poor eating habits and lack of exercise that you “inherited” from your parents. Poor eating habits and lack of exercise are the result of stupidity, not ignorance, and laziness,(there are many publications out there such as Prevention and Mens Health that have all the studies and information anyone needs to maintain a healthy lifestyle). And anyone seriously interested in living a healthy lifestyle will seek out the best information, with help from their doctor, if necessary. And for all the obese people out there who loudly claim theyr’e in great health, I want you to take notice that there extremely few 300lb people that live past their 50′s due to the many many accumulating health problems that come with ” FAT IS BEAUTIFUL” starting at middle age which occurs at about 25 for them.

By: kay

kay — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 04:48:22 +0000

fat is NOT beautiful NOR healthy and NOBODY normal thinks that. White and skinny is the standard of beauty, and ANY black man would choose a white girl over you, and that’s why you are so jealous and angry all the time.

By: Inque

Inque — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 04:53:25 +0000

Debbie: ATTENTION, WORLD. MY STANDARDS OF BEAUTY ARE EVERYONE’S. PLEASE LISTEN AS I PROJECT MY INSECURITIES AND PARALYTIC FEAR OF GAINING A FEW POUNDS ON THE GENERAL POPULATION. Maybe if I make fun of overweight girls as HARD AS I CAN, I’ll be skinny for the rest of my life! Please, everyone, PLEASE love me! I neeeeed you to love me and pay attention to me! If I wear pretty dresses and call the fat girls slobs, will you love me more?

Wackos: YEAH RAG-HEADS AND FAT BITCHES!

Rest of the world: Back away, people. Nothing to see here.

By: Less ‘Nique, Please

Less ‘Nique, Please — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 23:21:20 +0000

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By: mukk

mukk — Mon, 16 Apr 2007 22:37:14 +0000

look Debbie,you need to stop hateing ok,all you people really need to stop.Mo’Nique is doing great things for pluse size weman and i wont to say if you dont like to see big weman then dont witch the show…when your a big lady your selfasteam is already low because of people like you,you people need help.Are you scared that Bigg girls are going to take over?they need to have more people like Mo’Nique because she is REAL and if you stop worring about how pretty you are on the outside and worrie about whats on the inside then all that shit you talking wont even matter.some bigg girls are very healthy and some have healht problems that cause them to be big. know your shit befor you start to put people down.Mo do your thing girl and forgett what stupid people have to say,and to all the big girls out there you are all beautiful and dont let people like this barbie doll tell different

By: accept

accept — Mon, 02 Apr 2007 18:49:21 +0000

“Do they not see that their ‘Big is beautiful’ propaganda is a fallacy kept alive only by groups of fat women…”
No, they don’t. That’s because a notable percentage of the male population are ‘sickos,’ as the bigot Schlussel calls us, that prefer chunky women over slim women from a physical standpoint.
It’s not unnatural or even that unusual to find fat chicks attractive. Only a media-hypnotized and relatively asocial person would be naive enough to make such a claim. Schlussel is clearly both.
By the way, I don’t think Mo’Nique is that good-looking.

By: phenelope

phenelope — Thu, 10 Aug 2006 21:38:34 +0000

I am also a plus-size woman who is considered very attractive by lots of men, very few of whom I would lump into the derogatory-sounding category of “chubby-chasers.” True, some men are sickos who just revel in flesh. But lots of people, men and women, find a larger woman attractive. The key to being big and beautiful is being shapely and toned (and yes, big women can be toned – notice how the contestants in the beauty pageant had little visible cellulite, just large body parts). Also, disease is more closely linked with age and heredity than obesity, no matter how people try to twist and hype up the studies. Being overweight when you are older poses more risks, but so does doing everything, from jogging to having babies.
Yes, small, toned, shapely women are beautiful. But so are large, toned, shapely women. And, in clothes, so are all different sizes of not-so-toned or shapely women. And yes, there are a lot of guys who find overweight women disgusting. But there are also a lot of guys who find large women appealing. Can it be that this appeal flies in the face of the overdone efforts of “skinny” women who strive everyday to continue looking like the standard of beauty? Is it really about fitness for the majority of these women? Or are they simply vying for the magazine cover that plays in a man’s fantasy?
People hide behind “being healthy” as a reason to hate weight. But be real: you don’t like overweight people because they look different. They carry negative connotations. They take up lots of room and make you feel uncomfortable. You don’t care if these people aren’t healthy. You just use their appearance to negatively judge them and make unfavorable comparisons between them and yourselves.
One more thing: I know a lot of skinny people. Very few of them keep their weight down by being disciplined, even though that’s what many would like people to believe. Their metabolism and heredity factors are more often the reason why they don’t gain much weight. The other factor is the extreme lengths some people go to in order to stay slim. Being disciplined is one thing; being obsessed is another. Meanwhile, the gap between male and female relationships is growing wider. If being skinny truly helped, why is the divorce rate so high and why are people shying away from marrying (or even committing) in the first place?
Medicines and surgeries, not being skinny, are helping America live longer. Making healthy choices about diet and exercise help everyone as well. And as far as relationships are concerned, or even simply being attractive to a man, women would do better as a whole to focus more on how to be the best person they can be, regardless of their weight.
The author of this article sounded, as the earlier respondent put it, exactly like a mean-spirited adolescent. A more mature woman who understands that beauty is God-given would smile and feel a sense of camaraderie with women who, like her, were just being as beautiful as they could be, right then, right there, without waiting for later on when and if they lose weight. Later is not promised to us — we all have the right to enjoy ourselves and live life to the fullest here and now.
Meanwhile, Mo’nique cashes a bigger check than anyone, including the author, has ever seen, and takes a better picture than the author on Schlussel’s own article site…
You did a great job of inciting response, Ms. Schlussel. That had to be it, because what would really be disgusting — stomach-turning, even — would be if you really were that shallow. What if your mate gained weight? Would you make him feel nasty and unwanted? What if he tried to lose weight and couldn’t? Would he be your next target for hate?