March 31, 2010, - 4:10 pm

Girlie-Man Nation: Western Women Don’t Want Masculinity & Why (Decade of the Palin)

By Debbie Schlussel

I’ve written about this many times over the last decade:  the feminization of America’s men and the butchification of America’s women.  We’ve done plenty of “Men-the New Women” alerts on this site.


Western Women Chose the More Effeminate of These Girlie-Men

In World War II, when droves of women went to work in factories as Rosie the Riveter while their men were abroad fighting Nazis, they knew it was only temporary.  When the REAL men came back, the women would return to being women.  It’s hardly news that now America’s men are the new women.  And vice versa.  Like I said, we’ve been noting that here for over a decade.

Saturday’s Wall Street Journal had a much publicized two-page feature, “Why Women Don’t Want Macho Men,” about studies consistently showing that women in relatively wealthy Western societies prefer men with feminine faces and features, while women in struggling societies prefer masculine men.  But the article should have been title, “Why Spoiled Western Women Don’t Want Men & Why They’d Rather Be Them.”

Count me out of that mix.  I looked at the photos of the feminine men and thought, “Blechhhh.”  As a red-blooded, American female, I prefer the ruggedly handsome, masculine-looking guy–who can fix things and protect me–any day of the week to the effeminate, gay-looking girlie-men these “sophisticated Western women” picked.  Sadly, according to these studies, many Western women prefer the feminized version.  But, to me, even the “masculine” version looks like a chick (see above).  Yuck.

The Journal doesn’t directly express the societal distinction here–that the women who prefer feminine men are Western and afflicted with feminism and female gender-based affirmative action–and, instead, calls them countries with “healthier” populations.  It ain’t got nothin’ to do with health.  Sorry, but men who spend a lot of time on their hair and have a basket of hair products aren’t men.  They’re girls stuck in men’s bodies.  That’s not healthy.

In fact, preferring effeminate men is, on the contrary, very unhealthy.  It’s a serious problem.  And it will result in the further decline of the West.  The society that is strongest and growing–Islam–embraces masculinity.  The societies that always die are matriarchies.  Name one martriarchy that’s survived and become a great, long-lasting civilization.  You can’t.  There aren’t any.  There was no Ceasar-ette.  No Alexandra the Great.  No General Pat-Tina.  Helen of Troy may have inspired mythical wars, but she didn’t lead them.  She was merely the lure for the male warriors, the booty . . . and the booty.  And there was no exfoliant or eye creams on their night stands, nor is there any–I’ll bet–in Mr. Bin Laden’s cave.  Neither of these parties, respectively, had or have the luxury of engaging in this kind of be-like-women, sensitive man stupidity.

The European women who were part of these studies (along with Americans) have already lost their countries and their continents.  Marriage is over in their societies.  They are single motherhood nations (which we are fast becoming, a la Bristol Palin syndrome).  The only masculine men in their societies are named Mohammed and are fast taking over.  Preferring girlie-men is a fast track to the death of a society, the death of civilization.  L’Oreal Moisturizer for Men won’t save the world when a homicide bomber is about to press the detonator.

But who’s surprised by this?  Not me.  After decades of Oprah daily telling America’s women that men suck;  after decades of Hollywood telling America that most men and fathers are mere sperm donors who are chumps, absentee, and deadbeats;  with female writing staffs on hit shows, like “Mad Men,” revising history and lying to us about men even back when they actually were men;  with the fashion forces that be putting men into women’s clothes, like “skinny jeans,” “pink” . . . er, MAN-genta, and male corsets;  with the rapid death of male habits like hunting being replaced with unisex hobbies like gaming from home and remaining on the couch; after hardware stores like Home Depot and Lowe’s selling pink toolkits and urging women to do the repairs they once relied on men to do;  with female football coaches for high school boys raised by single mothers;  with even the so-called “traditional family values conservatives” embracing alpha male breadwinner husbands like Sarah Palin and Michelle Fraudkin (with their effeminate, estrogen-doused Mr. Mom wives-with-a-penis trailing behind like “cute” accessories, their detached testicles tightly in a jar somewhere in the distance), just like the “conservatives” in Europe–even less feminine than the butchy Michelle Obama, because at least her emasculated hubby who takes her orders and ire is the PINO (President In Name Only);  with “conservative hero” Palin and her daughter Bristol telling their anti-male hero Oprah (as they recently did) that the illegitimate, out-of-wedlock man and single mother doesn’t need a man in her life–are we really surprised that this dangerous influence of keeping men down, male-bashing, and slowly “phasing men out” has taken hold in a way that renders the male gender irrelevant?


I’d say that it seems the only “man” some of these women want is Obama.  Instead of relying on their husbands to pay for their healthcare, they relied on Obama and mostly male Democrats who voted for ObamaCare, to give it to them.  So, they don’t need a man.  But on the other side of the ideological divide, conservatives are embracing feminism in the Palins, etc., too.  Even the conservative “males” are feminine–Sean Hannity and National Review Editor Rich Lowry, who gives the effeminate males, pictured above, a run for their girlie-man money.  The words “macho,” “masculine,” and “masculinity” are oil to their water.  And I’ll bet you’ll use a lot of fingers counting the hair products and skin creams in their bathrooms.

Our society–from all angles–has bowed to the wiles of dead curmudgeon, Betty Friedan, and live one, Gloria Steinem.  Whether it’s Hollywood’s output, embrace of Mr. Moms and girlie-men even on the right, and the hardware stores’ pink tools, we’ve lost the appreciation for all that is male.

They’ve done these things, and we’ve followed suit, eating up their feminist baloney every step of the way.

And we’re supposed to be surprised that Western women choose girlie male faces and characteristics in men?

It’s not news.  But it’s definitely a bad thing.

And it’s the burly, stubbly-faced male that’s gonna be able to drag you from a burning building.  Not the guy who looks like Leonardo DiCaprio, Ryan Secrest, or Ricky Martin.

A matriarchy isn’t the only society that doesn’t survive.  A Girlie-Man Nation doesn’t, either.

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127 Responses

Hey, problems with girlie men? Come to Rome and try some so characteristic “Coatto”, the flavour of old fashioned mediterranean male. By the way u r completely rigth my dear, but it will be the peak oil to save us to this feminized catastrophe

Marcello on July 13, 2010 at 12:58 am

Oh relax. This is ridiculous. I consider my skinny man a “man” because he looks after me and takes responsibility for his actions, and I consider him to be much more of a “man” than the football player I dated that looked like a hunk of beef and had a pea-sized brain. Who cares if my man is not the standard definition of “masculine”? He is enough for me.

If you dont like feminine men or masculine women, you dont have to date them, but they exist everywhere, regardless of how conservative or liberal a nation is. There have been masculine women and feminine men since the beginning of time, and conservative countries aren’t able to eliminate this, they just punish it.

anonymous coward on September 14, 2010 at 11:03 am

    Your simplistic, naive comment, coupled with the user name you left pretty much explains you. Your man being skinny has nothing to do with whether or not he is a real man. If he is able, thru whatever means necessary, protect you when needed, then he is a man. Our society is rapidly declining into a more barbaric state. As our economy continues to implode (thank you Federal Reserve and puppet government regime of ours), real MEN are going to come back in favor. At this point you are in a much better position to survive what’s coming, than if you have a candy, dandy ass sissy, who cowers around real men. I wish all of you keepers of the ball sacks good luck at that point.

    James on October 24, 2011 at 12:32 am

    so you agree then. It’s about what the male does and how he acts (not if he’s all muscled up like a football player).
    As with the author, you like your male to look after you

    stelvio on June 5, 2015 at 7:28 pm

I was in a convenience store while vacationing in Maine. I heard a voice, the type of voice that I have not heard in this country for I don’t know how many years. I followed that voice around the store till I turned down an aisle and came face to face with owner of that beautiful masculine, deep voice that literally made me weak in the knees. It was an Iranian man talking to his friend. I continued to trail this man around the store for as long as possible like a starved
pathetic animal, knowing that I may not encounter such a treat again for quite some time. Sad isn’t it? In a society of masculine thick necked female celebrities(Brittany Spears, Jennifer Lopez) and scrawny nasal high pitched voiced male celebrities (Zac Efron, Leonardo Dicaprio, Ryan Reynolds) it is hard to define masculine and feminine since they are blending into one. I do feel that chemicals in the diet also greatly contribute to dna damage and have pulled us away from what nature intended us to be. It is obvious why the author of this article is more than a little upset since judging by her photo she remains one of the few American women left who actually looks like a woman. Hello? Hello? Anyone remember
Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn, Rita Hayworth? They average waist size of the American actress in the 1950’s was 19 inches. 19 inches! These were not woman who starved themselves or worked out in the gym like lunatics. They were naturally small boned and feminine. And what’s all this nonsense about men like Russel Crowe being three headed monsters because (god forbid!) he threw a phone at someone.
Is the memory of the American people so inept that they cannot recall Micky Mantle, Billy Martin and Whitey Ford throwing punches at the Copa? What about John Wayne knocking Frank Sinatra over a table at a restaurant in Palm Springs? Humphrey Bogart shoving someone away from his table at the 21 club? Uh People……..sorry to be the one to inform you but that is the way that men, real men, sometimes act. Get a clue.
Today a woman does not even have the liberty of throwing her drink in the face of a cad whithout being hauled off to jail.
These were known as LIBERTIES OF GENDER. Certain allowances were made in view of the fact that men and woman are

leonine on September 19, 2010 at 10:57 am

    CONTINUED: one and the same. I cannot tell you how uncomfortable it makes these manly women when in their presence
    I will wrap a lock of hair around my finger and play with it. This tiny female gesture completely takes them off guard where they become either extrememly irate with me or pathetically insecure. Think Im kidding? Try it for yourself.
    So you see, the problem is not just that gender differences are
    not promoted, it is more importantly that they are viewed as some kind of threat in today’s western culture.

    leonine on September 19, 2010 at 11:11 am

A brillant write up of American women and men so true !, but you forgot one thing that keeps the real men away. You cannot ever disagree or have a differing view on anything at all ever with an American woman they wont tolerate it !.

CptFreakout on October 26, 2010 at 10:27 pm

annoying article. Too annoying to even read. I stopped at this comment “Why Spoiled Western Women Don’t Want Men & Why They’d Rather Be Them.” Why is that spoiled?? I think its because we finally are sick of these disappointing creatures.

Jeanine Johnson on December 31, 2010 at 12:09 am

    Jeanine Galapogos, is that you? Girl, you have got to quit burning those bras. You can blame the men (sissies included) all you want. A big reason they are behaving the way they do is in response to what “women” say they want. If you want a sensitive man who is in touch with his feminine side, then get yourself a masculine girlfriend. Lord knows that there are as many of those out there as there are girlie boys. Just remember this; in a Gay relationship there is still a dominant party. Men=dominant, women=submissive. This is not to say women are weak. On the contrary, women derive their power from their feminine submissiveness. Real men want real women, and vise versa. Keep looking, their out there, just far fewer in number these days.

    James on October 24, 2011 at 12:47 am

Debbie Schlussel you right-wing nut job! If you think for one second that you’re? gonna get away with spewing hatred and discrimination, you’ll be in Hell in the fetal? position while Satan’s hard, plump, steamy, long, fat,? veiny, throbbing,? pulsating, muscular, sculpted, chiseled, red penis pound?s against the? walls of your fluffy, throbbing, tight, wet, pink vagina!

John Phughtpeanes on January 2, 2011 at 2:44 am

    John, quit wearing the dresses son! A real MAN has no problem with this article. That only leaves one conclusion for you, doesn’t it?! Take your ball sack back from your woman (or man), buck up and be a man!

    James on October 24, 2011 at 12:38 am

A less hysterical perspective may be that more options are now available for wealthy women in advancing, Western-style democracies, which don’t include the boorishness that women have put up with for centuries. The shift to an information economy has fueled equality for women, and in turn much of what Debbie laments (as she fully enjoys all the fruits of feminism). Many women are finding that testosterone-soaked men are more disruptive to their lives, less faithful, and not necessarily better providers, husbands, or fathers. So, we see this small shift occuring.

In making the argument that unmanly men weaken our country, Debbie romanticized Islamic countries and Bin Laden himself (one of the commenters did likewise, with Iran). We all understand that these 7th-century cultures brutally subjugate women, right? Extreme masculinity means more war, more rape, and more violence across the board. So, while there may be something to the charge of Western male-bashing, the conservative impulse to idealize another era when things were so much worse for so many people is unintelligent and over-simplistic.

This article is right-wing blather, with metrosexuals the latest horror destroying the West. I recommend Debbie heed her own advice. For starters, you’re not going to find macho men without submissive women around, so get cracking. Stop writing this column, go home, bang out a few kids, and practice that finger-twirl-in-the-hair thing.

TexRex96 on January 4, 2011 at 2:40 am

Great article! I think the last real man in the world is Keith Richards. Read his book “Life” and if that don’t convince you he’s a real man, nothing will. Plus he’s a gentleman on top of it and calls Mick Jagger a “pop diva”.

Except for the eyeliner he puts on, I can safely assume there are very few creams and exfoliants in his medicine cabinet??

Al on February 17, 2011 at 4:17 pm

and what about all these so called girly man should they have to suffer being alone just because they are not masculine its very painfull being single for a lot of men you know some of them actually commit suicide because of heartless bitches like you that wont look at them twice because they are not manly enough and anyway your masculine man wont be able to save you if a group of men come up and threaten to rape you and kill you and your kids there is no such thing as superman that group of men would rape you and kill you in front of your man while they either holdi him down and make him watch or kick the shit out of him so no matter how masculine he is your still not safe bitch so stop day dreaming about superman because he wouldn’t be able to anything when he is outnumbered would he

gfhjjhh on April 18, 2011 at 11:51 am

> GOD DID NOT MAKE MAN EQUAL < you can stand in front of a lil skinny guy all you want, rant and rave, assert your masculinity and dominance, and come at him full strength – but all hes gots to do is pull a little trigger! thats why man created GUN! now we all equal! even the femmes.

The function and order of life is only because of God's choice. And if its God's choice for Islam to slaughter your people, or if its God's choice to replace masculinity with technology, or if its God's choice for LIBmericans to finally take out that black rock in the future, it is still Gods choice. and the Ten Plagues aint gonna come cuz you "think" this is THE time for them to come. It is God's choice in absolutely everything, and it is an absolutely perfect choice every time.

Bruce on April 25, 2011 at 9:31 pm

Why is Rachel Maddow’s photo (RIGHT) in this comparison?

DC Handgun Info on April 29, 2011 at 5:38 pm

Worse……..jr. high boys in CA have received regular indoctrinations via hypnosis and drugs since 1951. That is why they will not criticize leaders or pass judgment about anyone; they have been programmed to be feminine in thought and words and it is as our leaders will have it. It is why CA is such a mess. There no MEN.

Robert on June 29, 2011 at 11:46 pm

All right. So how do I rate macho or girlie??
Aw, rats!! the photo won’t upload! Oh, Well!

Alfred Nesser on August 25, 2011 at 4:56 pm

Well Debbie, youre unsophisticated American white trash, so naturally youd prefer a more down to earth working class (see:idiot) guy wouldnt you?

Blake Camden on August 28, 2011 at 3:34 am

Are you insane?

shalina tacit on September 28, 2011 at 4:28 pm

Amen!! I think I’m in Love with this real WOMAN. The effeminate men in America (and other western countries) thoroughly disgust me. “Men”, for the most part, have gladly handed over their ball sacks to their “woMEN”. A lot of this I believe is because their wothless feminine asses are estatic (and can’t beleive their luck) that they even have a woman in the first place. That, or they become gay in their confusion. Let’s also not forget the more than real possibility that the chemicals in our food, air, and water are playing a big role as well. Foe a more detailed take on this subject go to and look up Alex Jones take on increased estrogen levels in both men and women. Keep up the good work, maybe we can get men to be men again, as well as women to be women. I believe that men and women are equally important in life, but there are (supposed to be anyway) distinct differences. Those differences are there for a reason. WAKE UP AMERICA!! Time is running out for us and our country.

James on October 24, 2011 at 12:23 am

I think it’s psychologically inevitable. You give an entire generation pussy soap- names like Blake, Camden, Adrian
your sure to desroy them from the cradle.

Observer on October 26, 2011 at 9:01 pm

Isn’t a reduction in gender identity an improved situation for women? No? Revisiting the year 1900 quickly reminds us of several things: 1. you would be your husband’s property and you would probably be beaten routinely; 2. you don’t get to vote; 3. you would never be allowed to publish some inflammatory nonsense like this.
Of all the crazy things that people manufacture to complain about, how can a woman possibly find a way to complain about this? Life is just too fucking easy these days.

Jimmy on November 30, 2011 at 12:34 am

I’m doing a standing ovation for you. The article is bold, direct, and most of all, it speaks blatantly about the reality of today. Your writing capture my frustration as men (and many other men whom I know within my circle). I desire for women’s beauty to be back among us and feminism, though it had some good intentions, stole many of the feminine features our women had. It made me cringe sometimes to see women who walk, talk, think, and dress like men. Your writing is a call to men to rise up and reclaim our manhood again, to provide strength, protection, leadership, and risk-taking forward move for our culture. Only when men recreate the safe haven for the feminine to express herself again, then beauty the way we knew it can emerge.

Chanuka Erdita on December 21, 2011 at 5:26 am

Some of these men replies surprise me to the point I think of them as women because they are so womanly(emotional) with their response. One guy speak of the 1900’s era as he was a female living then, and frankly I believes the lies that was fed to him was fed to him by those manly women, where there is little to no truth,,,I am sorry that these weak feminine men think of themselves as men and I would appreciate their soft ass to spend time around me so I can treat them like the little bitch they are. I guarantee the women they are with will cheat on them with a man like me and then go home to these pussy whipped men who pays her bills without questioning her as to why she is walking in at 3am in the morning with her hair messed up and dried cum on her lips,,,, y’all men are pathetic as men and these women know that why they take advantage of you’ll dumb asses……

tony on February 5, 2012 at 6:56 pm

Some of these men replies surprise me to the point I think of them as women because they are so womanly(emotional) with their response. One guy speak of the 1900’s era as he was a female living then, and frankly I believes the lies that was fed to him was fed to him by those manly women, where there is little to no truth,,,I am sorry that these weak feminine men think of themselves as men and I would appreciate if their soft ass spend time around me so I can treat them like the little bitch they are. I guarantee the women they are with will cheat on them with a man like me and then go home to these pussy whipped men who pays her bills without questioning her as to why she is walking in at 3am in the morning with her hair messed up and dried cum on her lips,,,, y’all men are pathetic as men and these women know that and that is why they take advantage of you’ll dumb asses……

tony on February 6, 2012 at 9:01 am

You know what, I’m not religious, but for this article I pray Butch comes back in style, just so you women will be put back in your place: fucktoys, baby factories, and househelp. They say you don’t appreciate what you got until you lose it.

Simon on April 6, 2012 at 6:51 pm

Bravo Debbie, for speaking truth among so many effeminate hypocrites! I’ve noticed that there are not so many “real men” left who will stand up and be counted! You are a beautiful woman and that because you aren’t afraid of speaking the truth! You’re doing God’s work, and may He bless you!

Garrett on May 13, 2012 at 4:42 pm

    Right, absolutely!! Thank God for Debbie, who speaks the truth!!!!! More Clint Eastwood, less Woody Allen!!!!!!!

    Dave on March 26, 2014 at 4:50 am

Consider the Book of Genesis in the Bible. Some expositors studying the original language and earliest manuscripts say “desire your husband” and “rule over you” are dead wrong. “You shall turn to your husband and he shall do likewise”. A statement of comfort. It can also be interpreted as “you shall desire your husbands’ power”. As a blessing, it guarantees a stable family. As a curse, it destroys the family and crushes us. In my 30 years of Bible study I have noticed that most of what God says has two different meanings. Here is a link to one page I found on this topic.

Eric Schramm on June 30, 2012 at 8:33 am

American women just are not interested in me sexually and/or personally. However, Muslim women seem to be extremely attracted to me. Women outside of North America, also, appear to be extremely attracted to me personally and sexually.
As can be surmised from the article, the difference in attraction are related to socio-cultural-political differences between nations.
One of the reasons that returning Vietnam Veterans were so offensively, unjustly, and aggressively attacked and discriminated against, suggest psychologists, was because they represented “the strong male” male image which was and is so inimical to American female cultural norms.

C.V. Compton Shaw on October 20, 2012 at 10:04 pm


I like what you’ve done here.

As a reformed momma’s boy who shed the hair products for a gym membership and the weak work for soldiering, every word you’re saying is the truth.

I personally am done with it – I’ve never been the type to have trouble getting dates but I find myself walking away from more relationships now. Take for instance the last girl – her simple demands were that I change (to someone effeminate) or she’d leave.

And so she left. Good riddance. Men need to take our dignity back, my boys die to protect this system – without our masculinity on the front lines this whole mommy’s boy shit system would be left on its own.

Anyway, good stuff and good to meet a white woman with her head on her shoulders right for once.

Nathaniel on November 26, 2012 at 12:07 pm

omg, this article is terrible!!

sara on February 17, 2013 at 11:27 am

Will you marry me? haha

Jimmy on March 17, 2013 at 2:11 am

I can’t believe this article. I am very concerned about the disgusting things people are saying about others here, how men and women are showing so much hatred for each other! I am sad.
I am a woman whose marriage ended when my children were five and three and have been living as a single parent and single woman now for twenty years. According to some of the commenters here, I may seem like a bitch who doesn’t need a man, a masculine, unfeminine woman just because I have managed to make a good life for myself and raise my children without a man! Wow, it’s not like I chose this lonely, loveless life! I had to toughen up and look out for myself and my daughters or go under! If that is unfeminine and ball breaking then I’m sorry but I couldn’t sit in the gutter starving whilst waiting for a strong, masculine man to rescue me from the cruel world because I wasn’t good looking enough to attract one with their narrow definitions of female attractiveness! After all, I was 35!
It is very sad to see a woman hating on her sisters!
I do agree though that feminism is to blame for men’s shortcomings and bad behaviour……it’s called THE BACKLASH! The more we ask for respect and human rights, the more badly men behave toward us!!
Yes, they throw tantrums cos all women won’t worship them like their mummies do!
That’s all I have to say.

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teapigs on May 21, 2013 at 3:19 pm

I am 24 and considered part of the millenial generation. It sickens me how guys my age act, they are whiny overly emotional skinny pants wearing hipster wanna be pussies. Being a real man doesnt demonize women or put them down, if your single and dont have kids or are single with kids and a girl and you have to provide for them or yourself because you aint got nobody I get that. Thats not ruining America. Whats ruining America is when you have a mother and father and the mother is the primary bread winner and disciplinarian while the father is submissive young boys see that and get sent the wrong message. Being a real man means providing for your family protecting your family physically from attack and danger raising your kids right and not spoiling them. Its ass backwards against nature for the female to be the dominant leader its not natural. It has nothing to do with being skinny or big it has to do with commanding respect and taking care of your obligations and leading your household.

Robert on May 29, 2013 at 4:24 pm


Search ‘ Physical Appearence of Prophet Muhammed’

then search his Characteristics. You will be surprise

Adnan on May 30, 2013 at 4:06 pm


Search ‘ Physical Appearence of Prophet Muhammed’

then search his Characteristics. You will be surprisded

Adnan on May 30, 2013 at 4:06 pm


Search ‘ Physical Appearence of Prophet Muhammed’

then search his Characteristics. You will be surprised.

Adnan on May 30, 2013 at 4:06 pm

I prefer a more ruggedly handsome man; one who can do household/car repairs, who likes hunting/fishing, and knows how to lead on the dance floor, and who knows how to treat me with respect and courtesy.

I think the author of this piece might be having some trouble with confusing masculine men from bullies, and well groomed men with sissy’s. When you call the men of ISLAM masculine you have serious issues with the definition of the word MASCULINE..Islamic/Muslim men are not masculine; they flat out rapists/pedophiles/BULLIES. I’ve known some very masculine men in my life who love to hunt/fish/ and be the head of the household, and also like to be well groomed starting with my father (and no one in their right mind would dare call him effeminate or sissy). What women want is a MAN (not a girlie man) who is also a GENTLEMAN. Masculine does not mean bully, crude, rude, bossy, or neanderthal.

Robin on June 5, 2013 at 11:31 am

Sexist tripe on the left. Arbitrary gender enforcement on the right. And in the middle is a big helping of Bible crap. Why am I not surprised?

Mario on June 23, 2013 at 1:56 am

In every country, where the government gives women security + welfare, the women loose respect for the men. It’s like that in North America, Candada, Western Europe, Australia, New Zealand, Japan. You only find good women in countries where there is no government welfare and no government protection. I know there are a few exceptions to this rule. There are a few good women in the West, but they are a small minority. So the only solution for men is to dismantle government welfare and government security. As soon that is gone, women will start respect their men again, because most women only want security and don’t give a rat’s ass about anything else in life. As long as the government gives them security, they don’t give a rat’s ass about men.

al on July 31, 2013 at 5:31 am

I agree with the author. I LOVE big hunky masculine men. The horrible sissies can ….like totally get out of here!
I want a REAL man who can protect me and throw me around the bedroom like a ragdoll… that’s what I am talking about baby!!
I want him to treat me like a queen…. (phew!)

Never had much time for the butchies (masculine women). They ugly.

David on August 13, 2013 at 7:10 am

matriarchal societies do exist… and have survived. i dont think they work the best BUT they do exist… as you can see in the link above.

i wonder if men are the ones choosing to be more effeminate – on their own – maybe they just dont want to take care of women anymore.
most women i know do not like “girly” man – but they also dont want a dumb hulk type who cant appreciate culture either … i think women will respect men who are honorable and demonstrate good values – they wont respect men if they fear them or have no choice but to rely on them to have good health and live their lives. you cant force respect no matter what you do – it is earned.

steph on August 29, 2013 at 4:30 pm

perhaps this is what you prefer ?

a nice return to the past? boring!

jane on August 29, 2013 at 10:27 pm

America was founded on freedom of choice if women want feminized or butch men that is their choice. America is strong enough that what ever choice the women make is not going to kill us. Then again I prefer to wear mini dresses and skirts with heels showing my silky smooth legs free of pantyhose let alone pants. Enjoying the vulnerability while the women wear hose or pants and envy the legs they can’t have.

Robert S Moulds on September 19, 2013 at 10:00 pm

I like being the girly sissy for a dormant

Larry Hinton on September 28, 2013 at 1:49 pm

Your primitive and ignorant outlook on life astounds me. I don’t even know what to say here. I can’t even… I’m going. I’m so done here.

Chadders on September 29, 2013 at 5:15 pm

Why do Jews insist on their perpetuating their own despicable left-wing stereotypes? The despicable, radical, left-wing pajama boy ad was created by liberal Jews to promote obamacare in which the pathetic, physically weak, girlie man is olearly Jewish…….absolutely sad and pathetic, but predictable…..I as a proud, poltically conservative Jew, am so F!@KING SICK AND TIRED of these liberal Jews, and their vile, DEMEANING, ULTRA LEFT-WING PROPAGANDA!!!!!!!!!

Dave on March 26, 2014 at 4:42 am

Do you expect people to believe this propagandistic bulls**t?

derkugelschreiber on April 15, 2014 at 4:24 pm

Is this article another futile attempt at to try to figure women out or their counter culture side kick the the feminized male
forget it, not going to happen. Keep writing articles if you want
women’s thinking and behavior is all Over the place, what matters
one day, will completely swing the other way the next day,literally one day!That’s how my ex wife was constantly
contradicting herself, no sooner the words leave her mouth, she’s doing what she just accused you of! Can you say pathological.Course she has men pounding down her door to spend time with her because she is mildly attractive, especially since she has half of my life earnings,While I couldn’t get a date if my life depended on it. Moral-watch who the fuck you get involved with!

stepvan on April 19, 2014 at 3:54 pm

Advretising for things such as hair products, designer clothes, and weight loss supplements used to be targeted exclusively at woman, but companies have realized that if they find ways to make men “metro sexual” they double their profits. It works the other way as well, such as the pink tool sets sold at the hardware store. Think about it, there used to be products targeted at men and products targeted at woman. If you get rid of gender roles everything can be sold to everyone. Now it’s common to see young men walking around in outfits that exceed the price to feed a family for a week, and young women driving mustangs. My point isn’t that the modern break down of gender roles is a good or bad thing, i’m merely shedding light on the fact that it’s good for buisness.

SterlingS on May 5, 2014 at 5:20 am

I agree with Debbie and could write a book on this topic connecting all of the dots however, what she prefers gender role-wise and what I grew up with as my Dad was like a Ben Cartwright while mother was like a Audrey Hepburn there extremely traditional wealthy family, is fading into oblivion. I know exactly why this is happening yet, typing it herein is a waste of everyone’s time. I’ll say this much, of We 5 children, 3 are divorced from a fantastic family. Primary reason, when the wife makes more the chances of a family breakdown increase.

Truth on June 19, 2014 at 8:37 pm

Well Debbie, you want the good old fashioned man. Sorry, too late. You (and all the other women thusly disposed) should have beaten Gloria Steinham’s head against the concrete to stop all this crap. Too late, they won. And we men are more and more going our own way. You may be personally traditional but the culture (and the law) is not. The only safe thing for males is to withdraw. Have fun with your gynarchy.

Ognywogny on August 26, 2014 at 9:19 am

Liberalism is a direct product of Christian slave morality – it’s basically Protestantism minus Jesus, with all the same moralizing, self-hating nonsense.
The reason the West is in decline is the reason it’s already had half a dozen suicidal, pointless wars.
The West is dying, and good riddance. Say what you want about Muslims, they were never stupid enough to believe in equality or Communism. It takes Christianity to create that kind of magical-fantasy world, and people rich/isolated enough to convince themselves of that crap. College is seminary, and ‘raysism’ is original sin.

There’s no saving Western culture precisely because of this. It needs to be replaced, not ‘restored’. It got precisely where it was BECAUSE of its history, not in spite of. Only the guilty conscience of White Christians could produce a suicide so spectacular and yet utterly devoid of interesting bits.

Ricky Moore on June 8, 2015 at 12:55 am

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